TT, Your car will come. Chuck has some great advice on cementing the deal without seeming like you don't trust the seller. The best advice is to act fast, which you have obviously learned the hard way. When I bought mine, I drove 5 hours having already arranged a bank draft and insurance - just in case. I was glad I did because it was early spring, when most men's minds turn to... Well you know. Someone else would have been right behind me. Absolutely remember to take your time and REALLY check everything before signing. I took a checklist and overlooked some things, but it really helped ensure I knew what I was overlooking. The fact that your wife is along for the ride is great.
Good luck!
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