One possible solution, which I know will be suggested, is to install a Pantera Electronics Fuse Panel and/or Headlight Controller kit. Many have reported Jon's products have solved a myriad of electrical issues.
http://www.pantera-electronics.com/hmc.htm
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MuSKQkkxy8M
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