Ron,
Boy, those are two different puppies, aren't they? But if the thread sealant was just smeared on the outside, no wonder it wouldn't work. A good thread sealant - plumbers often use Rectorseal #5 - might work for you. Failing that, perhaps you can find adapter fittings? But with heater hook-up space at a premium.... Good luck.
Larry
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