I couldn't help but be intrigued by the title of this post....
In terms of a 'spreader bar' I would second FordGT's comment that purchasing a new polished one and offering the old one for sale is probably the best and lowest risk option.
As per the title a 'Spreadherbar' (reads: spread-her-bar) is a whole different kind of piece of equipment I imagaine
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