I have had the same type of situations also. FedEx has even sent me a bill for brokerage 45 days after the delivery. I now ask for USPS (blue) shipping and ask that the packing slip and box be identified as:Parts for a '74 Car (add USED when parts are used), delivery is usually 10 to 14 days but no surprises.
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