Tom,
If you go to the web site of any of the cam manufactures, they should have specs for the valve spring pressure when the valve is closed, and at a specific lift. I think around 100 pounds is typical for a performance street cam, and a lot higher for a racing cam.
What you are describing sounds way off. I'd measure the force somehow before I mounted the heads.
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