I agree that the car does need to talk to you, but it also has to suit your requirements.
What do you want from the car, does it have, or have the capacity to have the personalised requirements you have.
Are you handy on the spanners, and can make, mod, fix the items that are required ?? The purchase price is only one part, you also have to include the cost involved to get the car to your specification, which may be more than a car with the items you want.
I purchased my car off a computer screen and it is in a shipping container on the boat coming to me now. I went a lower cost car, and bought all the items I wanted to bring it to my requirements. They are all very different cars.
Good luck !!