Your water temp is pretty much normal at 180-220 @ speeds above about 30mph, and oil temps should be within 5 or 10 degrees of the water, up to about 140 mph continuous. Above that, water temp tends to stay the same but oil temps start climbing. If this happens regularly, either you are driving way-fast and desperately need a full-flow oil cooler (and a fully-loaded get-outa-jail card!) or your oil temp gauge is not reading correctly. Oil temps (if true) at 280 are an engine-disaster ready to happen, as research has shown that the oil temp in the main bearings is 75-100 degrees hotter than that detected in your pan (which is where most oil temp gauges sense temps. I suspect the oil temp shown is wrong; maybe a mismatched sender & gauge or something, as even a new, tight engine shouldn't have this high an oil temp except on a big racetrack. Try a mechanical oil temp gauge and verify the very high oil temps, then let us know.